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"Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that's so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you."

Greetings and welcome to my
FAQ and Personal Information page.

How to contact me, the services I offer and my list of no no's are on the "Sessions" page.

Who am I?

I am a Lifestyle Goddess and a Professional Mistress.

I have been in the lifestyle for 23 years and out of that time I have been a professional on and off for a total of 5 years. Four years ago I decided to go pro again after seeing a need for a good quality experienced professional who could take these men to where they needed to be. A day didn’t go by without the numerous emails begging for a chance to serve me and let’s face it there are only so many hours in the day. So after much thought I took the chance and recently I have celebrated my fourth year in operation. I will answer some of the numerous questions I am asked and give you a bit of an insight into myself as well.

I am 45 years old, single and looking; I have one son, he is recently married and they live out of state. My Birthday is May 7th, favorite colors are blue and purple and black. Imagine that!! I adore black leather and believe other than red it should never be in another color, ok ok, purple too! I'm guilty of purple whips and floggers. If I had my way I wouldn't wear anything else but leather. To hell with the neighbors, all I know is that the guys at the local 7/11 and Amoco love club night ;).I read, paint with oils and garden. I love taking pics, cooking but hate the dishes. I love Cape Cod in the winter, Love Long Island. I mean the beach and the best city all within a quick ride away! Paradise!! Then of course I am here :) Love Dark Chocolate, Steak and Absolute. My favorite movie is Young Frankenstein, wow what a phrase "Could be worse, could be raining" My favorite band is Bad Company. Though I like all forms of music I am very partial to new wave from the 80's. I use different music in my sessions and they are mood driven activity driven and personal preference at the time.

I love teasing, tormenting, hearing you moan as I grab your nipple and pull on that clamp or give it a good twist after I have previously tormented it. I enjoy are flogging, foot worship (I love this) teasing and denial, and nothing beats spanking someone's bottom over my lap. I like to torment, make you wonder what I am up to as you lie there blindfolded and bound. What will she do to me next?? Think you can handle it? Hehehehe. Or better yet, think you can handle me? Any one who knows me at this minute is saying: "Oh no, not the "Sweet innocent Irish Catholic girl routine". Ok would you believe a sexy, sweet, slightly naughty and sadistic Pagan Goddess? I thought so! Sensation play is awesome, as is knife play. It is very mood driven with me, as I am sure it is with you. I am playful though when needed, I am very stern. I enjoy role-playing but I refuse to do age play. The closest I will come to it is being the teacher of high school student. Under no circumstances will I play any role where it is considered incest. And men, this I don't understand why, but have been asked to do this numerous times. I do not wrestle or fight; I don't care how pretend it is. Get a grip and find a man to fight with! Well you now know a little bit about me. Call me, so that you can get to know me even better. My contact info is on my session page.

Below are my answers to the numerous questions I get asked. If I have missed one or two you might have email me at Goddess@TheGoddessEllen.com or give me a call @ 504-913-2575 and lets talk but remember be respectful. And please do not call me after 1am .

Do you consider yourself a sensual or sadistic Domme?

I consider myself a sadist. But that doesn’t mean I start in 5th gear and go from there. There are two sides to a coin, so why not two sides of a Domme I am a sadist and a sensual Domme. But face it there is something to be said when one hears that moan when it is just right.

Do you use safe words?

Yes of course I use safe words, or should I have said I allow safe words to be used. Even if gagged I give my clients a way to use them. I like so many others in this lifestyle and profession use similar words. I use yellow and red. Face it we see these colors everyday and most are comfortable with their meanings. Red means stop and yellow means slow down.

If I red out will the session or the action stop?

No the session will not stop unless you wish it to. I will stop the action that made you go red.

Do you own subs and slaves?

I own one sub. Due to his business interests our time together isn’t what it could or should be.

Are you looking for others?

Yes I am at the moment. I seek a slave with the potential for a live in position at some point. But that does not mean that is a requirement to belong to me. I have always kept my eyes open you never know who or what can come along on the next wind. .so at the moment I am interviewing for service orientated submissives or lifestyle slaves.

How did you get started in this lifestyle?

Actually I heard the crack of a signal tail and I was all in. I was working an S&M affair in 1982 and when I watched the Mistress set up I was trapped and I knew then there was no turning back.

Have you ever submitted? Are you a switch?

Yes I have and no I am not. When I started there were very few outlets for females and very few Mistress who were out. So I subbed for a few months (hated it) and met this wonderful Domme who showed me the way. Through her guidance and mentorship I became the Domina I am today.

How long did you mentor with her?

I was with her for three years and she guided me for the remainder of her life. She was truly a remarkable woman. I miss her every day and at times when I need her she is still there guiding me.

What are some of your favorite activities?

Signal Tailing, flogging, corporal punishment, foot worship to name a few. Spanking, bondage, torture to name a few more and the list goes on. It would be easier to ask me what I don’t like and that you will find on my session page. Remember I am old schooled with a wicked imagination. Come on and call me.

Is sex a part of your sessions?

No it isn’t, though I consider S&M to be sexual in nature to me it isn’t a sex act. I do not allow sexual contact with me at all.

Do you consider this a job?

No I don’t, and I bet you are asking me why the tribute requirements. Simple I have to eat don’t I? When asked what I do for a living I answer that I am a Behavioral Therapist. LOL I mean I do correct naughty boys. LOL. I actually consider this a calling something I feel I have to do. And I am loving every minute of it. It’s great being the Goddess!

Do you ever play for fun?

Yes all the time. I do have my personal sub and friends I play with and I do play with those who approach me correctly if I am at a function etc. Whom that depends on the individual involved. Don’t address me correctly then what are the chances I will even speak to you more less play with you?

 There you have it, just a few questions and a bit of insight into who I am out of leather.  Hope it helps and remember keep those questions coming.

Bright Blessings

The Goddess Ellen

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